There is a great spectrum :: of synthetic skins being produced by various novelty companies, and these materials are very popular for realistic dildos. Cyberskin is a synthetic that warms to the touch and is available in flesh colors. Doc Johnson's realistic dildos are available in three beautiful skin tones which are black, white, and brown. Doc Johnson and other companies produce naturally look sex toys made of classic rubber. The plain rubber products are also generally long-life and stay new looking much longer. Be aware that realistic dildos can get a strong reaction from men ignorant in the pleasures of sex toys, because of feeling that realistic dildos are substituted for the real thing. If you are going to share your realistic cock with a male partner, make sure he is comfortable with using realistic dildo lest tension arise. Assure your partner of the fact that he is the one and your toy is only for fun.
Masturbation and the attitude :: of some Americans to it roots in history. There exist many evidences proving that just few centuries ago some parents thought the masturbation is a sin or leads to man diseases. They compelled their daughters to wear gloves made of special material called steel wool (like scourers) at night. In addition, they forced them to pour a powder on genitals that made all touches to them very painful. The boys were forced to wear at night metal chastity belts. Of course, the erection is such "clothes" was also painful. Sometimes their methods were very brutal, they new no bounds. To prevent masturbation they pieced the foreskin of their sons with a wire and soldered the ends. Thus the foreskin didn't move. Parents really believed masturbation leads to madness, illness, blindness, impotence and sexual pathologies. In our days it was already proved that it's not true.
You can choose between :: two ways of stimulating the prostate yourself. The first way is external - through perineum between testicles and anus. The second way is internal - through your anus. It could be quite difficult if you aren't lithe. Usually, the best position is when you are lying on your back, the knees are bended, foots are on the bed or they are pressed to your breast. In such position you can insert lubricated finger in your anus, bend it and find by feeling the prostate. Remember that fingernails should be cut shortly. In the depth of the prostate, about 3-5 cm, you will feel a small walnut sized lump on the front side of the rectum. Rub it carefully back and forth. You can also insert it and take out with different rhythm. Such movements stimulate highly sensitive nerves in anus region. If you don't want deep penetration you can stimulate only anal sphincter or perineum, it stimulates the prostate indirect. Such stimulation is much more intensive and deep. In such case it is harder to control the degree of arousal than during the stimulation of genitals. So don't hurry. Instead of the finger you can use prostate massager. It is more comfortable. Besides, all additional settings of such massagers bring real pleasure.