Latex condoms are made weak :: by oil-based lubricants such as skin Vaseline, cream, massage oil, hair gel and creams. Since the genitals are very sensitive, it is not recommend to use oil-based lubricants. It's a bad idea to use that on the genitals. The thing about oil-based lubricant is that they can be very hard to wash out. It may take a long time and a lot of water and soap. The one thing, though, that is very important to know about oil-based lubricants is that they destroy anything that contains latex. And that is condoms, latex dental dams that are used for oral sex on women. If you need gloves for penetrating with your fingers and using safer sex methods, diaphragms and latex sex toys, all don't do well with oil-based lubricants. It is better for solo sex when you do not need to use safer sex methods.
Double penetration massager :: or anal-vaginal stimulator is sex toy intended for simultaneous anal vaginal sex. Purchasing this sex toy, you should keep in mind the fact that the space between vaginal and anal orifice is individual for every woman, that is why be careful, choosing the model for your pleasure. Double penetration toy is better to use with personal multipurpose lubricant, which is for anal and vaginal sex. There are people who are prejudiced against such sex toys, they are convinced frequent using of such sex toys leads to the addiction and woman loses her ability to reach orgasm with real person. It is not true. The best way is to treat double penetration stimulator as the instrument for increasing of sexual sensitivity and studying of orgasm mechanism. Research showed that for many women vibrator is the first step to orgasm due to stimulation, then stimulation of the partner and sex follow. Don't forget to use water based lubricant!
Before inserting :: you have to be sure you are turned on. Watch adult movie or read some erotic books. Help each other! Some people like to have an orgasm before heading for the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood rushes to the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive. Gently caress the anus. Massage the anal area. Don't hurry up! Take your time and insert the first bead. Stop for a moment and let your body adjust to the sensation. Insert the beads very slowly, allowing yourself to savor the sensation. There's no hurry to insert the entire set of beads. The toy can feel just as nice when used partway, or just the first couple of anal beads. Take breath. Even if you are trembling from the pleasure of the beads, don't hold your breath. Breathing deeply draws much needed oxygen through your body, which helps to relax your muscles even further. Gently, pull the beads straight out.