There are oil-based lubricants :: designed specifically for male masturbation. Men apply oil-based lubricants to the penis during masturbation to increase the pleasure and reduce the friction to a nice pleasing sensation. Some brands of oil-based lubricants last longer and remain in a certain state of slickness longer than others. Your personal techniques may have quite a bit to do with what oil-based lubricants work best for you. Speaking about sex toys, you should remember that if your sex toy is made from latex, only use a water-based lubricant. Oil-based lubricants react badly with latex and start deteriorating from then on, causing cracking and peeling of the latex surface.
You can choose between :: two ways of stimulating the prostate yourself. The first way is external - through perineum between testicles and anus. The second way is internal - through your anus. It could be quite difficult if you aren't lithe. Usually, the best position is when you are lying on your back, the knees are bended, foots are on the bed or they are pressed to your breast. In such position you can insert lubricated finger in your anus, bend it and find by feeling the prostate. Remember that fingernails should be cut shortly. In the depth of the prostate, about 3-5 cm, you will feel a small walnut sized lump on the front side of the rectum. Rub it carefully back and forth. You can also insert it and take out with different rhythm. Such movements stimulate highly sensitive nerves in anus region. If you don't want deep penetration you can stimulate only anal sphincter or perineum, it stimulates the prostate indirect. Such stimulation is much more intensive and deep. In such case it is harder to control the degree of arousal than during the stimulation of genitals. So don't hurry. Instead of the finger you can use prostate massager. It is more comfortable. Besides, all additional settings of such massagers bring real pleasure.
Double penetration massager :: or anal-vaginal stimulator is sex toy intended for simultaneous anal vaginal sex. Purchasing this sex toy, you should keep in mind the fact that the space between vaginal and anal orifice is individual for every woman, that is why be careful, choosing the model for your pleasure. Double penetration toy is better to use with personal multipurpose lubricant, which is for anal and vaginal sex. There are people who are prejudiced against such sex toys, they are convinced frequent using of such sex toys leads to the addiction and woman loses her ability to reach orgasm with real person. It is not true. The best way is to treat double penetration stimulator as the instrument for increasing of sexual sensitivity and studying of orgasm mechanism. Research showed that for many women vibrator is the first step to orgasm due to stimulation, then stimulation of the partner and sex follow. Don't forget to use water based lubricant!