Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
Kits and sleeves are :: special types of sex toys kits. They represent a set of different sex toy products. Their package is very convenient for storing. The most popular variants of such kits are: male kits, female kits, couples kits, anal sex toy kits and g-spot vibrator kits. The prices on such kits and sleeves aren't very high and the variety of sex toys, that they offer, is very diverse. Erotic kit is a set of one or several vibrators with various sleeves made of silicon or cyber silicon, vaginal or anal balls and special water-based lubricant. If you already have a great experience in using of sex toys or you want to limit yourself in erotic feelings, then kits and sleeves is the best variant for you. With the help of plastic vibrators you can study your body and find erogenic zones.
Anal vibrators :: are designed for anal penetration. These sex toys are shorter and thinner than regular vibrators. Anal vibrators generally measure 4 to 6 inches long with a width that can vary from 0.75 to 1.25 inches. Using an anal vibrator, it's important to apply special lube to the anus and the vibrator for a smooth penetration. Anal toy should slide in and out with only slight resistance. If the resistance is too much, just try to insert a finger to loosen slightly the sphincter ring. If that doesn't work, don't use the anal vibrator. Continue exercises with finger regularly during two weeks in order to loosen up the sphincter before trying out the anal vibrator again. If it is your first experience, choose one of the smaller sized anal vibrators or for one advertised as a model for beginners.