In one Austrian museum :: among 250 historical exhibits related to sex, the most ancient condom was displayed. This condom which was made for multiply use, was found in Sweden. The boon dates back to 1640. The condom remained untouched, and it comes with instructions written in Latin. According to the instructions, the condom has to be dip into milk before using in order to avoid infections. By the way, in ancient times the dominating practice against lues was applying of animal fats or oil on genitals. At the heart of the practice was the idea that the disease penetrates through pores: thus they should be covered with oil or fat. Gentlemen used to take gold or silver boxes with animal fat when they dated with ladies.
Anal vibrators :: are designed for anal penetration. These sex toys are shorter and thinner than regular vibrators. Anal vibrators generally measure 4 to 6 inches long with a width that can vary from 0.75 to 1.25 inches. Using an anal vibrator, it's important to apply special lube to the anus and the vibrator for a smooth penetration. Anal toy should slide in and out with only slight resistance. If the resistance is too much, just try to insert a finger to loosen slightly the sphincter ring. If that doesn't work, don't use the anal vibrator. Continue exercises with finger regularly during two weeks in order to loosen up the sphincter before trying out the anal vibrator again. If it is your first experience, choose one of the smaller sized anal vibrators or for one advertised as a model for beginners.
Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!