Undoubtedly, you can stimulate :: the penis using just your hands and fingers. The success is guaranteed: you will reach the highest delight and, as a result, the ejaculation. But the man that doesn't want to work with hand should possess something exceptional. And it is numerous sex toys: sex dolls, realistic vaginas, dildos, and many others. As compared with hand masturbation such devices have some advantages: after their use the penis doesn't look slack and drooped. Such toy can work without a break. The hands are free and you can, for example, page your favorite magazines and books. Thus, you get the illusion of penetrating in vagina, anus or mouth. You feel warm and flexible material, and it resembles like if you have sex with real woman.
Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
Do you want a few treats :: for you and your partner, and there are just too many things to try? Vibrator kits contain a plenty of little toys that you can use alone or with your partner. Items that you'd expect to find in these kits include vibrators, pocket vibes, sleeves, penis rings, ticklers and small anal toys, but the actual contents vary from kit to kit. The best way to figure out what kit suits you best is to have a look at them, as the contents of each brand differs. Some sex kits for couples come with lubricant and toy cleaner, but if not, we recommend to purchase some. It will make the experience much more enjoyable. A good quality toy cleaner will help break down any bacteria or residue that is left on the toys, so that you can use them again. It is recommended that batteries be removed from the toys after use so prevent leakage and draining of your batteries. The toy cleaner should be also used after sex plays