Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
Usage of vibrating :: bullets and eggs:1) Before the first use or transfer to another person you need to sponge them with antiseptic or wash in warm water with soap. Avoid water contact with battery socket.2) It would be more hygienic to use them with condoms.3) Lubricate it before using with any water-based or silicon-based lube. It will allow you to avoid any discomfort and reduce the possibility of injury.4) Sponge them with warm water and soap. Avoid water contact with battery socket.5) Don't use oil-based lubricants (vaseline, vegetable oils, creams) and lubes that aren't destined for this purpose. T may harm the material of vibrating bullets or eggs as well as you health.6) Don't scald them and don't boil.7) Vibrating bullets and eggs should be kept in dry and sun-proof place.
If you are satisfied with :: your sexual life, using lubricants and gels, will allows you to diversify your relationships with new sensations and emotions. It is an opportunity to add some passion, flame in your intimate life. Besides, using gels is sometimes necessary if one of the partners is less excited. Almost all kinds of lubricants and gels feature disinfectant agents, protecting from venereal diseases. Sometimes people feel discomfort during sexual intercourse because of poor self lubrication. Many reasons may cause such problems. The reason why you decided to use gel is not of great importance. The important is that it disturbs you, making your sexual life uncomfortable. In such cases gel is the best decision.