Before inserting :: you have to be sure you are turned on. Watch adult movie or read some erotic books. Help each other! Some people like to have an orgasm before heading for the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood rushes to the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive. Gently caress the anus. Massage the anal area. Don't hurry up! Take your time and insert the first bead. Stop for a moment and let your body adjust to the sensation. Insert the beads very slowly, allowing yourself to savor the sensation. There's no hurry to insert the entire set of beads. The toy can feel just as nice when used partway, or just the first couple of anal beads. Take breath. Even if you are trembling from the pleasure of the beads, don't hold your breath. Breathing deeply draws much needed oxygen through your body, which helps to relax your muscles even further. Gently, pull the beads straight out.
Before using douche and enema :: try to clear up what aim you and your partner pursue. There are three main types of this procedure. During the first type, douche and enema are rather imitated than given. Water is not used and everything comes to nothing more than inserting into rectum. Such variant may be a starting point in your medical games, if your partner is not ready for full experiment with douche and enema. Right after the procedure, you can make sex without wasting time on water jetting. The second type represents injection of limited water volume (200-250ml). There are some advantages of this method. Your partner won't feel overpressure in bowels and you are safe against troubles which may be caused. If douche and enema are used often during your erotic games, full procedure may have baneful influence on gut organisms. During the third method, full procedure with douche and enema is held.
Usege of penis pumps :: -Before the first use wash the cup and its attachment in warm water with soap.-Attach the vacuum-created device (if necessary).-Put the attachment (sealant) in free cap end.-To simplify the entry of penis you can lubricate it. To strengthen the effect you can lubricate the penis with special erection cream (gel or spray).-Place the penis in the inlet and press the bulb base to your body for tightness. -Make the evacuation by squeezing the bulb or moving the plunger. If the bulb is equipped with automated suction device, bring it into action. -Hold the vacuum about 30 seconds. If everything was done correctly you will get the erection.-Let the air into the cup for at least 1 minute (till the slackening of erection).Repeat two previous procedures 10-15 times, depending on you comfort (when feeling discomfort or pain you must stop the procedure and consult with doctor). Evacuation power and duration of the procedures is defined individually.