Sooner or later :: both partners begin to realize that they want to try something crazy and new, but they just have no idea how to go about getting wilder. Bondage and fetish is a great way to build trust and intimacy with your lover. You both can discover other sides of each other due to bondage and fetish. Communication is very important if you and your partner are prepared to indulge in any kind of bondage and fetish activity, especially one that involves using restraints on your partner. You should let your partner know before you start your bondage and fetish session what you feel comfortable with and what you want to try. The very important moment in bondage and fetish plays is not afraid to speak up if something is painful or uncomfortable.
Water based lubricants are :: the most multipurpose. They don't erode condoms and materials, vibrators are made of. The only disadvantage of such anal lubricants is quick dryout and probably you will have to apply lubricant once more during sex. Silicone lubricants do not dry up and do not erode condoms and other latex wares. Don't use silicone anal lubricant playing with silicone sex toys. Anal lubricants may be edible and flavored. The best lube for anal sex is lubricants with antiseptic. The first experience of anal penetration is better to get alone with the help of fingers or sex toys. Be careful, inserting anal toys: painful sensations mean that it's better to stop.
Steel sex toys as dildos :: are ideal for people who prefer harder pressure on their G spot or prostate. Also, the smooth surface of most steel toys responds really well to lubricants. They stay slick longer than silicone toys. You don't have to worry about your favorite lubricant breaking down the material, as you do with silicone and other sex toys materials. Steel transmits heat and cold much better than other types of sex toy materials, such as jelly or silicone. Put your steel sex toy into the freezer for a bit or run it under some hot water to add a new dimension to your sex play. Steel toys are very easy to care for. Steel is non-porous, making clean-up a snap. You can easily disinfect your steel sex toy with a weak bleach solution or rubbing alcohol. Gentle washing with soap and water are best for every-day cleaning.