Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
Dildo harnesses are a great method :: of taking dildo play to a new level and of exploring sexual possibilities. But if it is your first time, here are some tips on how to use a dildo harness. Find the right position for the harness and make sure the size adjustments are most comfortable for you. You should always use a condom on dildos in harnesses. Using condoms is also a great way to make clean up easier, and to extend the life of your dildo. When you use a dildo harness you won't have the same immediate feedback because you can't feel the shaft of the dildo and so you won't know exactly what is going on with your partner. You need to pay more attention to your partner and don't forget to ask him/her about sensations. One of the main advantages of using a dildo harness is that it leaves other body parts free for use. So you may stoke your partner!
Double ended dildo :: is a unique sex toy which can be used by single person for masturbation as well as by homosexual and heterosexual couples. As the name suggests these dildos have two ends and each of the ends is designed for penetration. There is a great variety of double ended dildos, as these are made of different types of materials and have various textures: smooth, ribbed and others. Since a double ended dildo is meant to be used by two people, this sex toy should be chosen by both partners. You both should decide what kind of double ended dildo you are going to buy: rubber or silicone, smooth or ribbed. Heterosexual couples use double ended dildos for vagina-to-anus and anus-to-anus contact. Anus is a very sensitive body area in both men and women. Though use of a double ended dildo you can enjoy great anal stimulation simultaneously.