Speaking about bondage :: and fetish, let's first consider these two notions separately. There are many various kinds of fetishes. It depends on the object being fetishized. Inanimate fetishes come in three varieties - animate, media and form. Media fetishes include latex, rubber, leather and silk. With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object with great significance. Knee-high boots and lingerie fall into this category. Such body parts as feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but as these objects are human, they are called animate fetishes. People can turn anything into a fetish. There are different degrees of fetishism - from mild to extreme bondage. Bondage and fetish are inseparable notions.
It's not a secret :: that woman, in contrast to man, reaches the orgasm much slower. More than a half of all men need about 8 minutes to reach the highest point of pleasure, while only 1/3 of all women take a pleasure from sex. Sometimes women need just more time to reach the orgasm. As a rule, right after the ejaculation men rolls away to have rest. According to statistics, every 6 woman after such sex always remain unsatisfied. Some men don't even suspect of this because woman regularly simulates the orgasm. Even the preliminary fondling is ineffective. They don't allow equaling the level of arousal. Such stories aren't new in the field of sex. People from ancient times tried to find different types of erection keepers. And they succeeded in finding them, ex: sex toys.
Keep condoms handy :: at all times, because nobody knows what happen next. You shouldn't get embarrassed when you buy condoms. Be cool, because it shows that you are responsible. It would be great to go shopping for condoms with your beloved or friend. Today, it is also easy to buy condoms discreetly with the help of internet stores. Don't forget to talk to your partner about using a condom before having sex. This conversation will remove embarrassment and anxiety. If you use condoms for the first time, the best way to learn how to use them is to practice putting them on by yourself or your partner. It does not take long time to become a master. If you feel that condoms interrupt you passion and sensations then try introducing condoms into your lovemaking. It would be really sexy if your partner helps you put it on or if you do it together.