Water based lubricants are :: the most multipurpose. They don't erode condoms and materials, vibrators are made of. The only disadvantage of such anal lubricants is quick dryout and probably you will have to apply lubricant once more during sex. Silicone lubricants do not dry up and do not erode condoms and other latex wares. Don't use silicone anal lubricant playing with silicone sex toys. Anal lubricants may be edible and flavored. The best lube for anal sex is lubricants with antiseptic. The first experience of anal penetration is better to get alone with the help of fingers or sex toys. Be careful, inserting anal toys: painful sensations mean that it's better to stop.
Before using douche and enema :: try to clear up what aim you and your partner pursue. There are three main types of this procedure. During the first type, douche and enema are rather imitated than given. Water is not used and everything comes to nothing more than inserting into rectum. Such variant may be a starting point in your medical games, if your partner is not ready for full experiment with douche and enema. Right after the procedure, you can make sex without wasting time on water jetting. The second type represents injection of limited water volume (200-250ml). There are some advantages of this method. Your partner won't feel overpressure in bowels and you are safe against troubles which may be caused. If douche and enema are used often during your erotic games, full procedure may have baneful influence on gut organisms. During the third method, full procedure with douche and enema is held.
If you've never used :: vaginal cream, here are few tips to make vaginal cream application easy and quick. First of all, find a comfortable place to apply the cream, it may be you bed. Gently squeeze tube with cream from the bottom to take a sufficient amount of cream. Then, unscrew the applicator from the tube. Lie on back with knees drawn towards you and entirely insert applicator deep into your vagina. Press the plunger downward until it reaches its original position. You should clean reusable applicators by pulling the plunger to remove it from the barrel. Wash it with mild soap and warm water. Never use very hot water to prevent damage to reusable applicators. Most vaginal creams should be stored at room temperature.