You can choose between :: two ways of stimulating the prostate yourself. The first way is external - through perineum between testicles and anus. The second way is internal - through your anus. It could be quite difficult if you aren't lithe. Usually, the best position is when you are lying on your back, the knees are bended, foots are on the bed or they are pressed to your breast. In such position you can insert lubricated finger in your anus, bend it and find by feeling the prostate. Remember that fingernails should be cut shortly. In the depth of the prostate, about 3-5 cm, you will feel a small walnut sized lump on the front side of the rectum. Rub it carefully back and forth. You can also insert it and take out with different rhythm. Such movements stimulate highly sensitive nerves in anus region. If you don't want deep penetration you can stimulate only anal sphincter or perineum, it stimulates the prostate indirect. Such stimulation is much more intensive and deep. In such case it is harder to control the degree of arousal than during the stimulation of genitals. So don't hurry. Instead of the finger you can use prostate massager. It is more comfortable. Besides, all additional settings of such massagers bring real pleasure.
Water-based lubricants are :: often preferred for their cleanliness and in general they are the least irritating to body surfaces. The main feature of water based lubricants is that they are smooth and slick, but not sticky. As these lubricants are water-soluble, mucous membranes and skin absorb them. Water-based lubricants also have an advantage of being completely condom compatible unlike oil-based lubes which corrode latex. Popular water-based lubes are: Maximus, which is very long lasting lubricant. It is very popular for anal sex. Astroglide water-based lubricant is one of the most popular lube. It's nice, lick, and long-lasting. Astroglide is a great choice for those who have never even used lubricants.
Anal probes are :: anal toys for inserting in the anus in order to experience pleasurable sensation of fullness in the anus. Anal probes come in variety of materials, sizes and shapes. You have a great chance to choose anal probe which probably will become your favorite anal toy! Unlike the vagina, the anus has no natural lubricants. Don't forget to keep your anal probes well lubricated. For metal, latex and plastic probes use a good quality silicone lube and for silicone based anal probes use good quality water based lubricant. Use only anal probes, designed for anal penetration, as these are shaped and sized specifically for this purpose.