Creams, oils, lubricants :: are used by men and women to take care of their bodies and genitals. There are creams which increase sensitiveness of women, cure erection of men, also moisturizing, bactericidal and other types of creams exist. Aphrodisiacs, which are creams, increasing pleasure from sexual intercourse, are very popular. Special clitoral creams for external erogenic zones are recommended. Men apply creams which increase sensitivity and which reduce it to prolong sexual intercourse. Many creams and gels contain deodorizing substances and a great spectrum of exciting fragrances. Tasty, edible creams may be used for massage and during foreplays.
Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
Anal toys :: Such anal toy as beads is inserted into anal orifice one bead after another, with this person gets pleasant sensations. During extraction of anal beads from anal orifice simultaneously strongest ecstasy is achieved with one movement of the hand, then this feeling turns to the strong orgasm. The strongest and the most pleasurable sensations appear if anal beads are extracted from anus directly at the moment of orgasm. Anal orifice does not have excretion, so it is necessary to use anal lubricants. Water based lubes, warming or flavored lubricants create pleasant sexual sensations. Also these lubricants may be used into vagina. You should not save on special lubes using usual creams or vaseline, because they are made on oil and have active substances which have hazardous effect on vaginal microflora and they also damage condoms and soft sex toys.