You can choose between :: two ways of stimulating the prostate yourself. The first way is external - through perineum between testicles and anus. The second way is internal - through your anus. It could be quite difficult if you aren't lithe. Usually, the best position is when you are lying on your back, the knees are bended, foots are on the bed or they are pressed to your breast. In such position you can insert lubricated finger in your anus, bend it and find by feeling the prostate. Remember that fingernails should be cut shortly. In the depth of the prostate, about 3-5 cm, you will feel a small walnut sized lump on the front side of the rectum. Rub it carefully back and forth. You can also insert it and take out with different rhythm. Such movements stimulate highly sensitive nerves in anus region. If you don't want deep penetration you can stimulate only anal sphincter or perineum, it stimulates the prostate indirect. Such stimulation is much more intensive and deep. In such case it is harder to control the degree of arousal than during the stimulation of genitals. So don't hurry. Instead of the finger you can use prostate massager. It is more comfortable. Besides, all additional settings of such massagers bring real pleasure.
Anal vibrators :: are designed for anal penetration. These sex toys are shorter and thinner than regular vibrators. Anal vibrators generally measure 4 to 6 inches long with a width that can vary from 0.75 to 1.25 inches. Using an anal vibrator, it's important to apply special lube to the anus and the vibrator for a smooth penetration. Anal toy should slide in and out with only slight resistance. If the resistance is too much, just try to insert a finger to loosen slightly the sphincter ring. If that doesn't work, don't use the anal vibrator. Continue exercises with finger regularly during two weeks in order to loosen up the sphincter before trying out the anal vibrator again. If it is your first experience, choose one of the smaller sized anal vibrators or for one advertised as a model for beginners.
Prostate massager :: is a vibrator designed to make the massage of prostate. They have a bent form. Prostate is very sensible to sexual stimulation. Specialists found out that men can have two types of orgasms: one coming from stimulation of penis, the other - from stimulation of prostate. Men say that these types differ emotionally and physically. Like female G-zone, prostate becomes sensible to sexual stimulation gradually, as far as the orgasm approaches. Thus, the examination of prostate by the doctor is not equal to its stimulation in bed. You should know that there's no need to be in a hurry with stimulation till you'll reach maximum arousal. You can make a stimulating massage yourself. For better and unforgettable results you'd better use a lubricant and prostate massager. It is also advisable for your own comfort.