Keep condoms handy :: at all times, because nobody knows what happen next. You shouldn't get embarrassed when you buy condoms. Be cool, because it shows that you are responsible. It would be great to go shopping for condoms with your beloved or friend. Today, it is also easy to buy condoms discreetly with the help of internet stores. Don't forget to talk to your partner about using a condom before having sex. This conversation will remove embarrassment and anxiety. If you use condoms for the first time, the best way to learn how to use them is to practice putting them on by yourself or your partner. It does not take long time to become a master. If you feel that condoms interrupt you passion and sensations then try introducing condoms into your lovemaking. It would be really sexy if your partner helps you put it on or if you do it together.
Water based lubricants are :: the most multipurpose. They don't erode condoms and materials, vibrators are made of. The only disadvantage of such anal lubricants is quick dryout and probably you will have to apply lubricant once more during sex. Silicone lubricants do not dry up and do not erode condoms and other latex wares. Don't use silicone anal lubricant playing with silicone sex toys. Anal lubricants may be edible and flavored. The best lube for anal sex is lubricants with antiseptic. The first experience of anal penetration is better to get alone with the help of fingers or sex toys. Be careful, inserting anal toys: painful sensations mean that it's better to stop.
Needless to say that :: silicone based lubricants cannot be used with silicone sex toys. As for 100% silicone sex toys, you will not face with such problems unless it is not 100% silicone. It is also fine to use silicone-based lubricants with condoms of just about any kind. You have to be sure that it is made from 100% silicone elsewise it may destroy the sex toy and break it down. Using silicone-based lubricant with latex toy, make sure to double-check the information about the product and sure it is safe to use with latex. Apply the silicone-based lubricant in small amounts, spreading it around slightly until the needed lubrication is achieved.