Anal sex :: Butt plug, inserted in anus, extends it, constricting vagina in that way. If you decided to try anal sex, you should use butt plugs because inserting of penis into anus without preliminary preparation (relaxation) of this area may lead to very painful feelings. Before using butt plug, make sure that anal toy is made of plastic, burrs or jags. Cleanse butt plug with anal water based lubricant what will allow to avoid discomfort during using, and also will reduce injury possibility. It is not recommended to use butt plug simultaneously for anal and vaginal stimulation. It may lead to infection. Don't use oil based lubricants because it may damage the material the butt plug is made of and your health as well. After using, cleanse butt plug with warm water. Don't boil the device.
Before inserting :: you have to be sure you are turned on. Watch adult movie or read some erotic books. Help each other! Some people like to have an orgasm before heading for the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood rushes to the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive. Gently caress the anus. Massage the anal area. Don't hurry up! Take your time and insert the first bead. Stop for a moment and let your body adjust to the sensation. Insert the beads very slowly, allowing yourself to savor the sensation. There's no hurry to insert the entire set of beads. The toy can feel just as nice when used partway, or just the first couple of anal beads. Take breath. Even if you are trembling from the pleasure of the beads, don't hold your breath. Breathing deeply draws much needed oxygen through your body, which helps to relax your muscles even further. Gently, pull the beads straight out.
Speaking about bondage :: and fetish, let's first consider these two notions separately. There are many various kinds of fetishes. It depends on the object being fetishized. Inanimate fetishes come in three varieties - animate, media and form. Media fetishes include latex, rubber, leather and silk. With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object with great significance. Knee-high boots and lingerie fall into this category. Such body parts as feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but as these objects are human, they are called animate fetishes. People can turn anything into a fetish. There are different degrees of fetishism - from mild to extreme bondage. Bondage and fetish are inseparable notions.