Contrary to :: conventional wisdom, strap on is used by both sexes – man and woman. The main difference between male and female strap ons is fastening construction: strap on for women often has long narrow cut which allows direct contact with vagina. Strap on for man has special cut for penis which allows man double penetration. Also some types of strap ons may be supplied with special attachments directed inward: for vaginal or anal stimulation. These sex toys are usually made of plastic, rubber or silicone. Choosing lubricants, you should mentioned the material strap on is made of. Rubber and silicone toys are damaged from oil based lubricants. Vaseline, massage oils are also inappropriate because of the same reason.
Helium beads :: To avoid painful feelings there are such anal toys as helium beads for anal sex. Firstly, smooth long tip with little beads is inserted. It widens anus and relieves tension, then more thick beads are inserted. It is much easier to insert them. Another variety of anal toys for beginners is anal vibrator. Small models are made of soft and smooth latex, and have size of 10cm long and 2cm diameter. Thickened form prevents from deep penetration into anal orifice and serves as the element of manual control. Sex toys for anal sex are easily defined according to their wide bottom. Due to this fact, not the whole anal toy penetrates anal orifice.
Clitoral pumps :: are made for women who prefer a little pressure on their clitoris. These pumps imitate the feeling of sucking on women clit, and it is up to you whether you like it to be a gentle suck or a harder one. Clitoral pumps can be remote control or used with a hand pump bulb. The remote control ones may be better for eager clitoral pump users, and the hand pump bulb toys would be better for beginners. The reason is in the following: with the hand bulb, you can control the amount of suction you are creating easier, which in the end is safer. Too much suction can hurt blood veins and may lead to injury. This may be an extreme situation, and as long as you are careful, and do not pump more than what proves to be comfortable, you are safe. Clitoral sex toys are very arousing and perfect for women during solo self satisfaction.