Masturbation and the attitude :: of some Americans to it roots in history. There exist many evidences proving that just few centuries ago some parents thought the masturbation is a sin or leads to man diseases. They compelled their daughters to wear gloves made of special material called steel wool (like scourers) at night. In addition, they forced them to pour a powder on genitals that made all touches to them very painful. The boys were forced to wear at night metal chastity belts. Of course, the erection is such "clothes" was also painful. Sometimes their methods were very brutal, they new no bounds. To prevent masturbation they pieced the foreskin of their sons with a wire and soldered the ends. Thus the foreskin didn't move. Parents really believed masturbation leads to madness, illness, blindness, impotence and sexual pathologies. In our days it was already proved that it's not true.
There are oil-based lubricants :: designed specifically for male masturbation. Men apply oil-based lubricants to the penis during masturbation to increase the pleasure and reduce the friction to a nice pleasing sensation. Some brands of oil-based lubricants last longer and remain in a certain state of slickness longer than others. Your personal techniques may have quite a bit to do with what oil-based lubricants work best for you. Speaking about sex toys, you should remember that if your sex toy is made from latex, only use a water-based lubricant. Oil-based lubricants react badly with latex and start deteriorating from then on, causing cracking and peeling of the latex surface.
Undoubtedly, the main purpose :: of erotic massage is to get pleasure. However, it has other benefits:1) Erotic massage favors the rise of tonus. Striving for new and impressive feelings is a part of human nature. Our life becomes boring when everything is dull and monotonous. Massage with erotic elements can definitely cheer up and raise your tonus. You become full of energy and more active in life. In our days these qualities are really necessary!2) Erotic massage helps to get rid of stress. It may sound strange, but it's a fact. In our dynamic and full-of-stress life it is necessary to know how to relax and shift negative emotions. Somebody manages this problem by himself the others resorts to the use of massagers. 3) Erotic massage stimulates fantasy. Relaxation with the help of massagers refreshes the relations. Erotic massage is capable of exciting many erotic fantasies; as a result sexual life becomes more passionate and rich. So, massage and eroticism go with each other. And don't forget about massagers!