Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
Lubes and potions for women :: are available in a variety of products which contain various ingredients. It's important for women to read the label of a vaginal lubricant. If the matter concerns vaginal lubricants, it should be only water based lube. Petroleum-based lubricants can lead to infection, as well as cause damage to latex condoms. Many times women believe that vaginal lubes and potions for women are only for those experiencing vaginal dryness. However normal estrogen fluctuations often cause vaginal dryness creating the need for extra vaginal lubrication. Often vaginal dryness occurs during nursing, childbirth, pregnancy, using condoms and in times of emotional stress. Lubes and potions for women may help in such situations.
Anal toys for gays :: Anal plug is supplied with special mechanism which allows to inflate it with the help of pump for anal sex. This gay sex toy may be also supplied with vibrator with remote control. This device serves for increasing of sensitiveness during sexual intercourse due to contact of anus walls, also for stimulation of erogenic zones of anal area. It is also applied for training of muscle fibers of anus. In two three weeks of constant applying of this sex toy unpleasant painful feelings during anal sex are eliminated. That is why anal plug is very popular among homosexual couples.