It's not a secret :: that woman, in contrast to man, reaches the orgasm much slower. More than a half of all men need about 8 minutes to reach the highest point of pleasure, while only 1/3 of all women take a pleasure from sex. Sometimes women need just more time to reach the orgasm. As a rule, right after the ejaculation men rolls away to have rest. According to statistics, every 6 woman after such sex always remain unsatisfied. Some men don't even suspect of this because woman regularly simulates the orgasm. Even the preliminary fondling is ineffective. They don't allow equaling the level of arousal. Such stories aren't new in the field of sex. People from ancient times tried to find different types of erection keepers. And they succeeded in finding them, ex: sex toys.
Every time :: using strap on don't forger to use lubricants. Dildo and genitals of your partner have to be lubricated. Try different lubes to choose the best for strap on games. At first active partner should refrain from rough pushing hips movements. Position from behind is convenient for this purpose. Some prefer fellatio simulation when passive partner sucks dildo. If it is inserted into anus, don't put it into mouth without cleaning dildo with warm water using special cleaners for sex toys or soap. If active partner is a man, he can penetrate partner in turn with his own penis and strap on. If strap on is used by both man and woman, the variant of double penetration is applied, when man penetrates into vagina and anus with penis and strap on. If strap on is used by woman, its front part is just opposite her clitoris. Dildo shaft, pressing to the body, provides light clitoris stimulation, which gives much pleasure to women.
The only lubricant you can :: use with latex condoms is water-based lubricant. Oil-based lubricants have oil in them that reacts with latex. Knowing ingredients is important to determine if you will have a bad reaction to a water based lubricant. There three types of ingredients people are most likely to react to: Preservatives and antiseptics. These are the ingredients which long names end with -parabens. People can and do react to these, and increased exposure to them increases the allergic reaction. Paraben-free water based lubricants include: Probe, Hathor Aphrodisia Glycerin. Many educated sex stores tell their customers who are prone to yeast infections to avoid lubricants with glycerin. While research hasn't been done on this yet, glycerin, is very sweet, and that sweetness could feed the yeast that is naturally occurring in a healthy vaginal canal. Glycerin-free water based lubricants include: Liquid Silk , Maximus.