The history of strap on :: dates back to the times of matriarchy .Women thought little of men and preferred to make love with each other. Men took part in the process only to procreate. First strap on was created during those time. It served for excluding of men from the process of satisfaction taking. Women learned how to use this sex toy for punishment and humiliations. Whatever one may say women had to give in and they tried on male duties for vengeance. Later on, all these women ruses disappeared from sexual life till homosexuality was in disgrace. After that men could not indulge their desires, but they could not resist the thirst for anal sex. As usual women found the way out and soon real and potential gays got the opportunity to get married and to enjoy prostate massage with strap on.
Contrary to :: conventional wisdom, strap on is used by both sexes – man and woman. The main difference between male and female strap ons is fastening construction: strap on for women often has long narrow cut which allows direct contact with vagina. Strap on for man has special cut for penis which allows man double penetration. Also some types of strap ons may be supplied with special attachments directed inward: for vaginal or anal stimulation. These sex toys are usually made of plastic, rubber or silicone. Choosing lubricants, you should mentioned the material strap on is made of. Rubber and silicone toys are damaged from oil based lubricants. Vaseline, massage oils are also inappropriate because of the same reason.
Lesbians and strap on :: It is interesting to touch the question why women invented strap on. Some women have a stereotype that men rule the world, and finally one woman can recoup herself in full measure. Before strap ons were used by lesbians, but nowadays many heterosexuals use this kind of sex toy. Lesbian couple represents a couple in which one partner can be a mistress, another one - a slave. In such situation strap on gives lesbians big step forward, they do not need men, just dildos, and there are no problems in exchanging roles. Both women can get orgasm. Also lesbians regard strap on as the kind of erotic lingerie, which helps them to feel themselves sexy.