Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
The only lubricant you can :: use with latex condoms is water-based lubricant. Oil-based lubricants have oil in them that reacts with latex. Knowing ingredients is important to determine if you will have a bad reaction to a water based lubricant. There three types of ingredients people are most likely to react to: Preservatives and antiseptics. These are the ingredients which long names end with -parabens. People can and do react to these, and increased exposure to them increases the allergic reaction. Paraben-free water based lubricants include: Probe, Hathor Aphrodisia Glycerin. Many educated sex stores tell their customers who are prone to yeast infections to avoid lubricants with glycerin. While research hasn't been done on this yet, glycerin, is very sweet, and that sweetness could feed the yeast that is naturally occurring in a healthy vaginal canal. Glycerin-free water based lubricants include: Liquid Silk , Maximus.
Prostate massager :: is a vibrator designed to make the massage of prostate. They have a bent form. Prostate is very sensible to sexual stimulation. Specialists found out that men can have two types of orgasms: one coming from stimulation of penis, the other - from stimulation of prostate. Men say that these types differ emotionally and physically. Like female G-zone, prostate becomes sensible to sexual stimulation gradually, as far as the orgasm approaches. Thus, the examination of prostate by the doctor is not equal to its stimulation in bed. You should know that there's no need to be in a hurry with stimulation till you'll reach maximum arousal. You can make a stimulating massage yourself. For better and unforgettable results you'd better use a lubricant and prostate massager. It is also advisable for your own comfort.