Speaking about bondage :: and fetish, let's first consider these two notions separately. There are many various kinds of fetishes. It depends on the object being fetishized. Inanimate fetishes come in three varieties - animate, media and form. Media fetishes include latex, rubber, leather and silk. With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object with great significance. Knee-high boots and lingerie fall into this category. Such body parts as feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but as these objects are human, they are called animate fetishes. People can turn anything into a fetish. There are different degrees of fetishism - from mild to extreme bondage. Bondage and fetish are inseparable notions.
Usage of vibrating :: bullets and eggs:1) Before the first use or transfer to another person you need to sponge them with antiseptic or wash in warm water with soap. Avoid water contact with battery socket.2) It would be more hygienic to use them with condoms.3) Lubricate it before using with any water-based or silicon-based lube. It will allow you to avoid any discomfort and reduce the possibility of injury.4) Sponge them with warm water and soap. Avoid water contact with battery socket.5) Don't use oil-based lubricants (vaseline, vegetable oils, creams) and lubes that aren't destined for this purpose. T may harm the material of vibrating bullets or eggs as well as you health.6) Don't scald them and don't boil.7) Vibrating bullets and eggs should be kept in dry and sun-proof place.
Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!