Up until the early :: 1990s, many psychiatrists believed that bondage and fetish activities were pathological, although now they are regarded as common sexual practice among certain groups of people who prefer tough stuff. Recently, bondage and fetish have become more popular with the appearing of bondage gatherings, bondage and fetish parties. Such festivities are growing in popularity because of bondage and fetish gatherings. People bring whips, paddles, canes, nipple clamps, handcuffs to act out their fantasies with their partner in front of a small crowd. These fetish parties can be perfect fun! Paddles and whips are all designed to help you and your partner step over the pain to feel real pleasure. Of course your actions have to be discussed beforehand in order not to cause pain to each other.
If you are satisfied with :: your sexual life, using lubricants and gels, will allows you to diversify your relationships with new sensations and emotions. It is an opportunity to add some passion, flame in your intimate life. Besides, using gels is sometimes necessary if one of the partners is less excited. Almost all kinds of lubricants and gels feature disinfectant agents, protecting from venereal diseases. Sometimes people feel discomfort during sexual intercourse because of poor self lubrication. Many reasons may cause such problems. The reason why you decided to use gel is not of great importance. The important is that it disturbs you, making your sexual life uncomfortable. In such cases gel is the best decision.
Lesbians who like penetration :: may want to try strap on dildos. Here are some tips for great sex with this kind of sex toy. Put on your harness and strap on dildo and get used to how it feels before falling into passion with your partner. The tighter harness is the more control you will have and the more sensation you will feel. Don't forget about foreplay. Kisses, touches are always welcomed. Get her excited and turned on before you penetrate. Put a condom on your strap on dildo and use plenty of lubricant. Go slow and easy the first time. Let your partner guide you in how fast, deep, slow, rough or easy you move. Try different positions. Missionary position allows for face to face intimacy, doggy style allows you to penetrate deeper inside her. If you want to change the orifice, remember to change condoms. Both partners have to enjoy the playing!