Anal plays :: Some say that anal sex is something disgusting because of the following reason: it is unpleasant for them with relation to hygiene. Speaking about hygiene, it is better to take a shower before anal plays. Much better variant is taking a shower together, it will give additional emotions, and will create the illusion of partners cleanliness. You can also use enema for this purpose. -Another interesting moment. Some people consider anus to be too narrow, they are afraid to hurt it during sexual intercourse. Actually, this is not the case, from the other hand anal stimulation does not always limit to anal sex, there are other variants to give pleasure to your partner.
You can choose between :: two ways of stimulating the prostate yourself. The first way is external - through perineum between testicles and anus. The second way is internal - through your anus. It could be quite difficult if you aren't lithe. Usually, the best position is when you are lying on your back, the knees are bended, foots are on the bed or they are pressed to your breast. In such position you can insert lubricated finger in your anus, bend it and find by feeling the prostate. Remember that fingernails should be cut shortly. In the depth of the prostate, about 3-5 cm, you will feel a small walnut sized lump on the front side of the rectum. Rub it carefully back and forth. You can also insert it and take out with different rhythm. Such movements stimulate highly sensitive nerves in anus region. If you don't want deep penetration you can stimulate only anal sphincter or perineum, it stimulates the prostate indirect. Such stimulation is much more intensive and deep. In such case it is harder to control the degree of arousal than during the stimulation of genitals. So don't hurry. Instead of the finger you can use prostate massager. It is more comfortable. Besides, all additional settings of such massagers bring real pleasure.
It's not a secret :: that woman, in contrast to man, reaches the orgasm much slower. More than a half of all men need about 8 minutes to reach the highest point of pleasure, while only 1/3 of all women take a pleasure from sex. Sometimes women need just more time to reach the orgasm. As a rule, right after the ejaculation men rolls away to have rest. According to statistics, every 6 woman after such sex always remain unsatisfied. Some men don't even suspect of this because woman regularly simulates the orgasm. Even the preliminary fondling is ineffective. They don't allow equaling the level of arousal. Such stories aren't new in the field of sex. People from ancient times tried to find different types of erection keepers. And they succeeded in finding them, ex: sex toys.