In spite of the fact :: that anal sex is considered to be dirty, unnatural and even forbidden in some religions, many people prefer this type of sex, because we need diversity in everything. However on account of its peculiarities anal sex is the most traumatic one. There are methods with the help of which you can reduce negative consequences and get maximum pleasure. In order to avoid sphincter rupture, be careful and use special anal lubricants. Use anal lubricants during sex with partner or when you use sex toys. There are three main types of lubricants: oil, water, and silicone based lubricants. If you want to massage your partner, use oil based lubricants. But, such lubes are not for sex toys experiments, because oils can erode latex or silicon. As physicians recommend making anal sex only with condom, such type of lubricants does not suit.
Butt plugs :: may be in the form of a cone or finger. Men put such plugs in anal orifice for prostate stimulation. Women do it with another purpose: plug fills up the area of rectum and presses down on vagina outside, reducing it in size, so pleasure increases during sexual intercourse. Butt plug is also applied for the relaxation before anal sex or for the constriction of vagina. The last one can be used by women with wide vagina (for example when her vagina muscles are loose after delivery, and also for increasing of sensations during sex. It is recommended to use butt plug with water based lubricants.
It's not a secret :: that woman, in contrast to man, reaches the orgasm much slower. More than a half of all men need about 8 minutes to reach the highest point of pleasure, while only 1/3 of all women take a pleasure from sex. Sometimes women need just more time to reach the orgasm. As a rule, right after the ejaculation men rolls away to have rest. According to statistics, every 6 woman after such sex always remain unsatisfied. Some men don't even suspect of this because woman regularly simulates the orgasm. Even the preliminary fondling is ineffective. They don't allow equaling the level of arousal. Such stories aren't new in the field of sex. People from ancient times tried to find different types of erection keepers. And they succeeded in finding them, ex: sex toys.