Using warming lubricants :: you can apply it on every part of your body. For additional sexual pleasure, you can rub warming lubricant into the breasts or the buttocks. Give the warming lubricant a minute to heat. You can massage it to increase the warmth. Blowing on the genitals after warming lubricant has been applied, intensifies the heat. If you notice any irritation on skin after applying a warming lubricant, stop using it. Maybe it is allergic reaction. Anyway, consult with a doctor. You can also choose a flavored warming lubricant. Popular flavors include pina colada, cherry, strawberry, watermelon.
Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
Butt plugs :: may be in the form of a cone or finger. Men put such plugs in anal orifice for prostate stimulation. Women do it with another purpose: plug fills up the area of rectum and presses down on vagina outside, reducing it in size, so pleasure increases during sexual intercourse. Butt plug is also applied for the relaxation before anal sex or for the constriction of vagina. The last one can be used by women with wide vagina (for example when her vagina muscles are loose after delivery, and also for increasing of sensations during sex. It is recommended to use butt plug with water based lubricants.