Before inserting :: you have to be sure you are turned on. Watch adult movie or read some erotic books. Help each other! Some people like to have an orgasm before heading for the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood rushes to the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive. Gently caress the anus. Massage the anal area. Don't hurry up! Take your time and insert the first bead. Stop for a moment and let your body adjust to the sensation. Insert the beads very slowly, allowing yourself to savor the sensation. There's no hurry to insert the entire set of beads. The toy can feel just as nice when used partway, or just the first couple of anal beads. Take breath. Even if you are trembling from the pleasure of the beads, don't hold your breath. Breathing deeply draws much needed oxygen through your body, which helps to relax your muscles even further. Gently, pull the beads straight out.
Massage is an integral :: part of sensual love for many couples. The great combination of touch and scent is very effective in opening up intimacy between two people. There are a lot of nerve endings that follow along the path of the spine. Begin the massage with a small amount of massage oil, which can be found in the category of sensual love products. Rub the oil in the palms of your hands to warm it up before it touches the skin of your partner. Encourage your lover to breathe in a deep and relax as you gently massage his neck. If the massage is a prelude to sexual intercourse, now is a really good time to let the kissing begin. Don't forget about fluffy pillows and soothing music and the time of sensual love will be unforgettable.
Helium beads :: To avoid painful feelings there are such anal toys as helium beads for anal sex. Firstly, smooth long tip with little beads is inserted. It widens anus and relieves tension, then more thick beads are inserted. It is much easier to insert them. Another variety of anal toys for beginners is anal vibrator. Small models are made of soft and smooth latex, and have size of 10cm long and 2cm diameter. Thickened form prevents from deep penetration into anal orifice and serves as the element of manual control. Sex toys for anal sex are easily defined according to their wide bottom. Due to this fact, not the whole anal toy penetrates anal orifice.