Helium beads :: To avoid painful feelings there are such anal toys as helium beads for anal sex. Firstly, smooth long tip with little beads is inserted. It widens anus and relieves tension, then more thick beads are inserted. It is much easier to insert them. Another variety of anal toys for beginners is anal vibrator. Small models are made of soft and smooth latex, and have size of 10cm long and 2cm diameter. Thickened form prevents from deep penetration into anal orifice and serves as the element of manual control. Sex toys for anal sex are easily defined according to their wide bottom. Due to this fact, not the whole anal toy penetrates anal orifice.
Using warming lubricants :: you can apply it on every part of your body. For additional sexual pleasure, you can rub warming lubricant into the breasts or the buttocks. Give the warming lubricant a minute to heat. You can massage it to increase the warmth. Blowing on the genitals after warming lubricant has been applied, intensifies the heat. If you notice any irritation on skin after applying a warming lubricant, stop using it. Maybe it is allergic reaction. Anyway, consult with a doctor. You can also choose a flavored warming lubricant. Popular flavors include pina colada, cherry, strawberry, watermelon.
Needless to say that :: silicone based lubricants cannot be used with silicone sex toys. As for 100% silicone sex toys, you will not face with such problems unless it is not 100% silicone. It is also fine to use silicone-based lubricants with condoms of just about any kind. You have to be sure that it is made from 100% silicone elsewise it may destroy the sex toy and break it down. Using silicone-based lubricant with latex toy, make sure to double-check the information about the product and sure it is safe to use with latex. Apply the silicone-based lubricant in small amounts, spreading it around slightly until the needed lubrication is achieved.