Before using douche and enema :: try to clear up what aim you and your partner pursue. There are three main types of this procedure. During the first type, douche and enema are rather imitated than given. Water is not used and everything comes to nothing more than inserting into rectum. Such variant may be a starting point in your medical games, if your partner is not ready for full experiment with douche and enema. Right after the procedure, you can make sex without wasting time on water jetting. The second type represents injection of limited water volume (200-250ml). There are some advantages of this method. Your partner won't feel overpressure in bowels and you are safe against troubles which may be caused. If douche and enema are used often during your erotic games, full procedure may have baneful influence on gut organisms. During the third method, full procedure with douche and enema is held.
The industry of sex :: offers a great variety of sex toys for the stimulation of prostate. Many toys designed for women can be equally used by men. But the most comfortable variant is prostate massager. It was designed specially for men. Such massagers can be equipped with vibrator and have additional functions or settings. So, during its use your feelings may vary. The material of execution can be diverse: acryl, glass, silicon or jelly-like material, which is more pliable. Here is an advice how to find the prostate for those who don't know. Lubricate well your finger and insert in the anus about 2/3 inches. Bend the finger like if you call somebody with it. Put it a little deeper and you should feel it on the front part. By feel it resembles rounded bump.
You should apply plenty :: of lubricants using a double ended dildo. In fact this concerns any sex toy, such as dildo or vibrator. This is necessary because many materials sex toys are made of do not glide quite well. And a sex toy, unlike penis, does not have natural lubrication. Use of a lubricant is especially important if you use your sex toy in anal plays. Never use the same end of the dildo for vaginal and anal penetration. Thus you can transmit infections from the anus to the vagina. It is very important to wash your sex toy as only this way you can enjoy safe play. You should be aware of the fact that any material requires especial way of cleaning and care. You should know what material your double ended dildo is made of and clean your sex toy properly. Use condoms, thus you will make cleaning of your dildo much easier.