Prolonging lubes are :: special creams, sprays or lubricants. Their destination is to prolong sex in cases of premature ejaculation. Usually, the composition of such lubes consists of anesthetic (lidocaine, benzocaine and other elements) that benumbs the nerve-endings. As a result, the sensory acuity reduces and the moment of male orgasm is postponed. Sometimes menthol is used as an additional component in prolonging lubes. Lubricate sensible regions of your penis with prolonging lube before sex (10-15 minutes).You may repeat the lubrication straight before sex as necessary. All these preparations don't influence on potency.
Oldest dildo :: The oldest dildos were found in tombs of ancient Egypt. They were made of loam. As Egyptian aristocracy was buried only with the most valuable things (which could be useful in a better world), so it is obvious, that dildo was of a great importance for Egyptian women. For material considerations not so much dildos were made of gold or silver. In the Middle Ages sealing wax was widely spread. It absorbed body warmth and became a little bit soft creating natural sensation. Primitive tribes used loam: unglazed for common people and glazed for leaders wives. During active use loam could break to pieces what led to painful procedure.
Clitoral pumps :: are made for women who prefer a little pressure on their clitoris. These pumps imitate the feeling of sucking on women clit, and it is up to you whether you like it to be a gentle suck or a harder one. Clitoral pumps can be remote control or used with a hand pump bulb. The remote control ones may be better for eager clitoral pump users, and the hand pump bulb toys would be better for beginners. The reason is in the following: with the hand bulb, you can control the amount of suction you are creating easier, which in the end is safer. Too much suction can hurt blood veins and may lead to injury. This may be an extreme situation, and as long as you are careful, and do not pump more than what proves to be comfortable, you are safe. Clitoral sex toys are very arousing and perfect for women during solo self satisfaction.