Helium beads :: To avoid painful feelings there are such anal toys as helium beads for anal sex. Firstly, smooth long tip with little beads is inserted. It widens anus and relieves tension, then more thick beads are inserted. It is much easier to insert them. Another variety of anal toys for beginners is anal vibrator. Small models are made of soft and smooth latex, and have size of 10cm long and 2cm diameter. Thickened form prevents from deep penetration into anal orifice and serves as the element of manual control. Sex toys for anal sex are easily defined according to their wide bottom. Due to this fact, not the whole anal toy penetrates anal orifice.
Before using douche and enema :: try to clear up what aim you and your partner pursue. There are three main types of this procedure. During the first type, douche and enema are rather imitated than given. Water is not used and everything comes to nothing more than inserting into rectum. Such variant may be a starting point in your medical games, if your partner is not ready for full experiment with douche and enema. Right after the procedure, you can make sex without wasting time on water jetting. The second type represents injection of limited water volume (200-250ml). There are some advantages of this method. Your partner won't feel overpressure in bowels and you are safe against troubles which may be caused. If douche and enema are used often during your erotic games, full procedure may have baneful influence on gut organisms. During the third method, full procedure with douche and enema is held.
Lesbians who like penetration :: may want to try strap on dildos. Here are some tips for great sex with this kind of sex toy. Put on your harness and strap on dildo and get used to how it feels before falling into passion with your partner. The tighter harness is the more control you will have and the more sensation you will feel. Don't forget about foreplay. Kisses, touches are always welcomed. Get her excited and turned on before you penetrate. Put a condom on your strap on dildo and use plenty of lubricant. Go slow and easy the first time. Let your partner guide you in how fast, deep, slow, rough or easy you move. Try different positions. Missionary position allows for face to face intimacy, doggy style allows you to penetrate deeper inside her. If you want to change the orifice, remember to change condoms. Both partners have to enjoy the playing!