Speaking about bondage :: and fetish, let's first consider these two notions separately. There are many various kinds of fetishes. It depends on the object being fetishized. Inanimate fetishes come in three varieties - animate, media and form. Media fetishes include latex, rubber, leather and silk. With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object with great significance. Knee-high boots and lingerie fall into this category. Such body parts as feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but as these objects are human, they are called animate fetishes. People can turn anything into a fetish. There are different degrees of fetishism - from mild to extreme bondage. Bondage and fetish are inseparable notions.
Helium beads :: To avoid painful feelings there are such anal toys as helium beads for anal sex. Firstly, smooth long tip with little beads is inserted. It widens anus and relieves tension, then more thick beads are inserted. It is much easier to insert them. Another variety of anal toys for beginners is anal vibrator. Small models are made of soft and smooth latex, and have size of 10cm long and 2cm diameter. Thickened form prevents from deep penetration into anal orifice and serves as the element of manual control. Sex toys for anal sex are easily defined according to their wide bottom. Due to this fact, not the whole anal toy penetrates anal orifice.
Anal sex :: Butt plug, inserted in anus, extends it, constricting vagina in that way. If you decided to try anal sex, you should use butt plugs because inserting of penis into anus without preliminary preparation (relaxation) of this area may lead to very painful feelings. Before using butt plug, make sure that anal toy is made of plastic, burrs or jags. Cleanse butt plug with anal water based lubricant what will allow to avoid discomfort during using, and also will reduce injury possibility. It is not recommended to use butt plug simultaneously for anal and vaginal stimulation. It may lead to infection. Don't use oil based lubricants because it may damage the material the butt plug is made of and your health as well. After using, cleanse butt plug with warm water. Don't boil the device.