Water based lubricants are :: the most multipurpose. They don't erode condoms and materials, vibrators are made of. The only disadvantage of such anal lubricants is quick dryout and probably you will have to apply lubricant once more during sex. Silicone lubricants do not dry up and do not erode condoms and other latex wares. Don't use silicone anal lubricant playing with silicone sex toys. Anal lubricants may be edible and flavored. The best lube for anal sex is lubricants with antiseptic. The first experience of anal penetration is better to get alone with the help of fingers or sex toys. Be careful, inserting anal toys: painful sensations mean that it's better to stop.
Anal vibrators :: are designed for anal penetration. These sex toys are shorter and thinner than regular vibrators. Anal vibrators generally measure 4 to 6 inches long with a width that can vary from 0.75 to 1.25 inches. Using an anal vibrator, it's important to apply special lube to the anus and the vibrator for a smooth penetration. Anal toy should slide in and out with only slight resistance. If the resistance is too much, just try to insert a finger to loosen slightly the sphincter ring. If that doesn't work, don't use the anal vibrator. Continue exercises with finger regularly during two weeks in order to loosen up the sphincter before trying out the anal vibrator again. If it is your first experience, choose one of the smaller sized anal vibrators or for one advertised as a model for beginners.
Latex condoms are made weak :: by oil-based lubricants such as skin Vaseline, cream, massage oil, hair gel and creams. Since the genitals are very sensitive, it is not recommend to use oil-based lubricants. It's a bad idea to use that on the genitals. The thing about oil-based lubricant is that they can be very hard to wash out. It may take a long time and a lot of water and soap. The one thing, though, that is very important to know about oil-based lubricants is that they destroy anything that contains latex. And that is condoms, latex dental dams that are used for oral sex on women. If you need gloves for penetrating with your fingers and using safer sex methods, diaphragms and latex sex toys, all don't do well with oil-based lubricants. It is better for solo sex when you do not need to use safer sex methods.