G spot position :: does not allow to enable it during sex. Excluding cases, when penis has curved shape during erection. That is why you should choose special position for G spot stimulation. Usually position from behind is advised, or woman on top when she can control movements of the partner. The most effective stimulation is reached with the help of special G spot vibrators. There is a wide spectrum of such sex toys today. Before buying, it's better to study your body and sensations. The peculiarity of G spot vibrators is their curved shape. They may have either slightly or sharply defined curve. G spot stimulators may be thin as a pencil, or thick, short or long.
Stimulations :: Vibrator may be used by woman for stimulation. Sometimes women use this sex toy for stimulation of her erogenic zones in accordance with her desires. Vibrator may be also used by men for sexual stimulation. However vibrator influences men less effectively than women. With this, men have erogenic zones which can react roughly towards the vibrator action. These zones are on the back side of penis in the area between scrotum and anus It is highly advisable to pick and choose with respect to vibrator. It should be always clean. For example, if you use it for anal area, before inserting the toy into vagina, wash it. Remember, if vibrator is used for sexual stimulation of both partners genitals, it may become the source of infection. That is why hygiene should be observed.
Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!