Warming lubricants work :: almost the same way massage oils work. Take a small puddle in your hand and apply warming lubricant in a thin layer to the desired area. Rub it into your skin, applying more if it's necessary. As you continue massaging, the warming lubricant will begin to heat up. Your partner feels a pleasantly warm sensation. Warming lubricants are great for genital massage. Some warming lubricants can't be used with latex products. To avoid problems, read the label before using. You can apply them to the surface of your genitals. Be careful: some of the warmth-inducing elements of the lubricant may irritate skin; do a skin patch test before using during it sexual intercourse, otherwise your genitals may end up hotter than you intended.
It's not a secret :: that woman, in contrast to man, reaches the orgasm much slower. More than a half of all men need about 8 minutes to reach the highest point of pleasure, while only 1/3 of all women take a pleasure from sex. Sometimes women need just more time to reach the orgasm. As a rule, right after the ejaculation men rolls away to have rest. According to statistics, every 6 woman after such sex always remain unsatisfied. Some men don't even suspect of this because woman regularly simulates the orgasm. Even the preliminary fondling is ineffective. They don't allow equaling the level of arousal. Such stories aren't new in the field of sex. People from ancient times tried to find different types of erection keepers. And they succeeded in finding them, ex: sex toys.
Many of us have :: false idea about ways of using realistic vibrator. So, you've purchased realistic sex toy. You should not hurry, do everything slowly and gently. Even if you like different experiments in sex, don't hurry in this case. Try to create corresponding psychological atmosphere. Sexual fantasies are great for this purpose. In the beginning it is better to use not so big realistic vibrators. They become warm in your hands due to unique properties of the material. Before using don't forget to apply lubricants to genitals. Sexual stimulation with realistic vibrator is so intensive, that it is hard to resist it. Feeling strong effect from vibrator stimulation once, woman is able to reach orgasm with or without partner.