Before inserting :: you have to be sure you are turned on. Watch adult movie or read some erotic books. Help each other! Some people like to have an orgasm before heading for the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood rushes to the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive. Gently caress the anus. Massage the anal area. Don't hurry up! Take your time and insert the first bead. Stop for a moment and let your body adjust to the sensation. Insert the beads very slowly, allowing yourself to savor the sensation. There's no hurry to insert the entire set of beads. The toy can feel just as nice when used partway, or just the first couple of anal beads. Take breath. Even if you are trembling from the pleasure of the beads, don't hold your breath. Breathing deeply draws much needed oxygen through your body, which helps to relax your muscles even further. Gently, pull the beads straight out.
You should know :: You should not use lubricants on a fat basis, such as vegetable oil, vaseline, cream, or other formulations, which are not meant for this, because it is dangerous for your health and may spoil the material of the product-You should'nt cleanse vibrator in boiling water-Keep vibrators in dry place away from direct sunbeams
Sooner or later :: both partners begin to realize that they want to try something crazy and new, but they just have no idea how to go about getting wilder. Bondage and fetish is a great way to build trust and intimacy with your lover. You both can discover other sides of each other due to bondage and fetish. Communication is very important if you and your partner are prepared to indulge in any kind of bondage and fetish activity, especially one that involves using restraints on your partner. You should let your partner know before you start your bondage and fetish session what you feel comfortable with and what you want to try. The very important moment in bondage and fetish plays is not afraid to speak up if something is painful or uncomfortable.