Prolonging lubes are :: special creams, sprays or lubricants. Their destination is to prolong sex in cases of premature ejaculation. Usually, the composition of such lubes consists of anesthetic (lidocaine, benzocaine and other elements) that benumbs the nerve-endings. As a result, the sensory acuity reduces and the moment of male orgasm is postponed. Sometimes menthol is used as an additional component in prolonging lubes. Lubricate sensible regions of your penis with prolonging lube before sex (10-15 minutes).You may repeat the lubrication straight before sex as necessary. All these preparations don't influence on potency.
Before inserting :: you have to be sure you are turned on. Watch adult movie or read some erotic books. Help each other! Some people like to have an orgasm before heading for the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood rushes to the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive. Gently caress the anus. Massage the anal area. Don't hurry up! Take your time and insert the first bead. Stop for a moment and let your body adjust to the sensation. Insert the beads very slowly, allowing yourself to savor the sensation. There's no hurry to insert the entire set of beads. The toy can feel just as nice when used partway, or just the first couple of anal beads. Take breath. Even if you are trembling from the pleasure of the beads, don't hold your breath. Breathing deeply draws much needed oxygen through your body, which helps to relax your muscles even further. Gently, pull the beads straight out.
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