However, if you want to wash :: your steel sex toy in the dishwasher, don't use dish washing detergent or rinsing agents, as they are bad for your pink bits and for some metals. In fact, you shouldn't use any soap at all, because the water and heat will be enough to clean your steel sex toys thoroughly. You should also select the air dry cycle: it will dry your toys enough to keep them from rusting. Of course if your steel toy takes batteries, do not put it in the dishwasher. We also do not recommend putting the decorative steel toys for anal plays in the dishwasher. Steel toys are not sensitive to light or other indoor environmental influences. You can safely store your favorite steel toys whenever you want. You should be careful when storing it with more fragile items, such as glass. If you are going to store your toy with a lot of other sex toys, it is better to wrap your steel toy in a cloth or sock.
Gentleness, adequate lubrication :: and anal relaxation are required for anal sex! If condoms are used for penile penetration, which is advisable to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease, it is important to use water based anal lubricant. The man should control his thrusting, so as to give the partner time to allow their sphincter to relax. This will become easier with time and practice. Some anal lubricants contain a desensitizer to make the anal play more comfortable. Since the anal region is not self lubricating, anal lubricants are very helpful for making anal penetration more comfortable and more pleasurable. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, somebody does it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's possible to enjoy anal sex. However, some people may never like it. If your lover is one of those people, respect their views. Don't force the idea upon them!
If you've never used :: vaginal cream, here are few tips to make vaginal cream application easy and quick. First of all, find a comfortable place to apply the cream, it may be you bed. Gently squeeze tube with cream from the bottom to take a sufficient amount of cream. Then, unscrew the applicator from the tube. Lie on back with knees drawn towards you and entirely insert applicator deep into your vagina. Press the plunger downward until it reaches its original position. You should clean reusable applicators by pulling the plunger to remove it from the barrel. Wash it with mild soap and warm water. Never use very hot water to prevent damage to reusable applicators. Most vaginal creams should be stored at room temperature.